Monday, January 11, 2010

PERSONAL BALANCE IN THE END OF THE YEAR



In the end  of a year, maybe each man makes his - at least mentally, if not on paper - sheet personal balance. What we did in this year, what we did not managed to do, what beneficial actions, successful and responsible we had and which actions, decisions and choices have been proven wrong.., or brought me suffering? Such questions show already, the mere fact that we put them, a conscience .. lucid, advanced, prone to evolution, in awareness and self-responsibility. And, after we see our balance ,after we see the behaviors, attitudes, reactions and beneficial actions, stimulating and good brings as on other - difficult, uninspired, wrong, or illusory - follow inherent action of assuming responsibility for all . Whatever was the consequences of decisions, choices and our behavior is important to us fully assume we. We have to assume each decision and every choice and the consequences which arose from them. This is the natural how to restore the balance in your own consciousness, the real path of a internal healing tensions and a way for which we start to change those choices, decisions, behaviors, attitudes and negative situations that we have lived. The procedure of the "assuming responsibility" has the exceptional benefit on our lives that leads to a relief depth in the consciousness, where all the tension stored as a result of misperceptions and wrong actions that have followed it. And we can not to assume the responsibility without a clear decision to do so, which means that total renunciation to the phenomenon of projection (to throwing guilt on others or to the belief that we acted wrong and the self blame what follows its). The assuming of the responsability makes us aware that our decisions and choices have consequences. If some of them have negative consequences, which brings us pain, or we create problems is important to accept that other people who were near to us and seem involved in what happened to us we have created evil or suffering are actors who have appeared on stage and - also - our own responsibility. You not blame on others, to design our lack of inspiration, of attention, inability to make decisions, or to make things work better on others only serves to perpetuate the repressing mechanisms, frustration, tension and the projection, leading people - usually - in error to another. In fact, all consequences arise spontaneously, from a previous decision or choice to be assumed to generate healing energy and to free us from under the pressure ... A closer observation, honest and lucid on ours problems, will reveal that often take decisions which we go to extreme states of suffering, whose case are not find - and then - on someone else! The assuming of responsability will light ours conscience and heart and will giving us mental clarity, and inner strength and desire to restore .. the honest relationship with ourselves.We will see tomorrow as "responsibility assuming" reflect the high awareness and put huge pressure point, that people can not deal in any other way! .